Finishes up support for these extensions by adding a send-time
check and error for the case where we have 8 bit content and
the appropriate extension is not advertised by the next hop.
A shaping option is provided to bypass this, both to facilitate
testing and as a way to bypass it for situations where the
operator knows best.
closes: https://github.com/KumoCorp/kumomta/issues/327
Wez Furlong
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