This commit removes the queue_name_for_config_change_purposes_only wart
from inside the readyq machinery. This field had a bunch of caveats
and could in some cases become stale if the originating scheduled
queue had aged out.
It's been replaced by a HashSet of Weak refs back to the associated
scheduled queues so that it is now possible to walk the reverse of
the fan-in graph when we need to.
Wez Furlong
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