feat: query mem limiter (#7078)

* feat: query mem limiter

* feat: config docs

* feat: frontend query limit config

* fix: unused imports

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* feat: add metrics for query memory tracker

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* fix: right postion for tracker

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* fix: avoid race condition

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* feat: soft and hard limit

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* feat: docs

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* fix: when soft_limit == 0

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* feat: upgrade limit algorithm

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* fix: remove batch window

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* chore: batch mem size

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* feat: refine limit algorithm

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* fix: get sys mem

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* chore: minor change

* feat: up tracker to the top stream

* feat: estimated_size for batch

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* chore: minor refactor

* feat: scan_memory_limit connect to max_concurrent_queries

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* chore: make callback clearly

* feat: add unlimted enum

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* chore: by review comment

* chore: comment on recursion_limit

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* feat: refactor and put permit into RegionScanExec

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* chore: multiple lazy static blocks

* chore: minor change

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Cargo.lock

@@ -10127,6 +10127,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "common-query",
  "common-recordbatch",
  "common-runtime",
+ "common-stat",
  "common-telemetry",
  "common-time",
  "datafusion",