* feat: ttl zero filter
* refactor: use TimeToLive enum
* fix: unit test
* tests: sqlness
* refactor: Option<TTL> None means UNSET
* tests: sqlness
* fix: 10000 years --> forever
* chore: minor refactor from reviews
* chore: rename back TimeToLive
* refactor: split imme request from normal requests
* fix: use correct lifetime
* refactor: rename immediate to instant
* tests: flow sink table default ttl
* refactor: per review
* tests: sqlness
* fix: ttl alter to instant
* tests: sqlness
* refactor: per review
* chore: per review
* feat: add db ttl type&forbid instant for db
* tests: more unit test