fix(node): support Apache Arrow 19 through 21 and run the library on each

Builds on #4359 (which added the Arrow 19-21 test aliases) and makes the
package genuinely work across the whole peer range:

* Resolve the library's own `apache-arrow` to 21.2.0 (devDependency) so
  the main CI jobs build, type-check and test on the newest release, and
  widen the peer range to `>=15.0.0 <22.0.0` instead of an exact pin.
* Add a CI job that re-installs with `apache-arrow` resolved to 19.0.1 and
  20.0.0 and runs the suite, covering what a consumer on those versions
  gets.
* Arrow 21 overrides `Symbol.hasInstance` on Schema/Field/Table/RecordBatch/
  Data so `instanceof` matches objects from another copy of the library,
  but not on DataType. The sanitizer's short-circuits therefore returned
  foreign schemas unchanged and Arrow's builders then failed with
  "Unrecognized type 'NONE'". Check the real prototype chain instead.
* Sanitize the types added in Arrow 20/21 (LargeList, Utf8View, BinaryView,
  IntervalMonthDayNano), looked up dynamically so the library still compiles
  and runs on older Arrow releases, with a clear error when the installed
  Arrow lacks the type. Carry `variadicBuffers` through `Data`.
* Loosen `FieldLike` so a branded DataType from another Arrow copy still
  type-checks; export the new `DataTypeLike`.
* Share the Arrow version list between test files, exercise embedding
  function types per version in the registry tests, and add sanitize and
  end-to-end coverage for the new column types.
* Enable `skipLibCheck`: flatbuffers 25 (via Arrow 21) ships declarations
  that need TypeScript 5.7+.
* Record the new dev dependencies in the third-party license inventory.

Co-Authored-By: Vincent Koc <vincentkoc@ieee.org>
Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5.1 <noreply@anthropic.com>

nodejs/pnpm-lock.yaml

@@ -14,9 +14,6 @@ importers:
       '@opentelemetry/api':
         specifier: ^1.9.0
         version: 1.9.1
-      apache-arrow:
-        specifier: '>=15.0.0 <=21.2.0'
-        version: 18.1.0
       reflect-metadata:
         specifier: ^0.2.2
         version: 0.2.2
@@ -54,6 +51,9 @@ importers:
       '@types/tmp':
         specifier: ^0.2.6
         version: 0.2.6
+      apache-arrow:
+        specifier: 21.2.0
+        version: 21.2.0
       apache-arrow-15:
         specifier: npm:apache-arrow@15.0.0
         version: apache-arrow@15.0.0
@@ -1852,10 +1852,6 @@ packages:
     resolution: {integrity: sha512-gFlPaqN9osetbB83zC29AbbZqGiCuFH1vyyPseJ+B7SIbfBtESV62mMT/CkiIt77W6ykC/nTWFzTXFs0Uldg4g==}
     hasBin: true
 
-  apache-arrow@18.1.0:
-    resolution: {integrity: sha512-v/ShMp57iBnBp4lDgV8Jx3d3Q5/Hac25FWmQ98eMahUiHPXcvwIMKJD0hBIgclm/FCG+LwPkAKtkRO1O/W0YGg==}
-    hasBin: true
-
   apache-arrow@19.0.1:
     resolution: {integrity: sha512-APmMLzS4qbTivLrPdQXexGM4JRr+0g62QDaobzEvip/FdQIrv2qLy0mD5Qdmw4buydtVJgbFeKR8f59I6PPGDg==}
     hasBin: true
@@ -5746,18 +5742,6 @@ snapshots:
       json-bignum: 0.0.3
       tslib: 2.8.1
 
-  apache-arrow@18.1.0:
-    dependencies:
-      '@swc/helpers': 0.5.21
-      '@types/command-line-args': 5.2.3
-      '@types/command-line-usage': 5.0.4
-      '@types/node': 20.19.41
-      command-line-args: 5.2.1
-      command-line-usage: 7.0.4
-      flatbuffers: 24.12.23
-      json-bignum: 0.0.3
-      tslib: 2.8.1
-
   apache-arrow@19.0.1:
     dependencies:
       '@swc/helpers': 0.5.21