feat(table): route merge_insert through the MemWAL LSM write path (#3354)

## Summary

When an `LsmWriteSpec` is installed on a table (#3396), `merge_insert`
upsert
calls are dispatched through Lance's MemWAL `ShardWriter` (LSM-style
append)
instead of the standard merge path.

- **`use_lsm_write`** — a `merge_insert` builder option, default `true`;
set it
  `false` to use the standard path for a call even when a spec is set.
- **`assume_pre_sharded`** — a `merge_insert` builder option, default
`false`;
  skips the per-row shard check and routes by the first row only.
- **`close_lsm_writers`** — drains and closes the table's cached MemWAL
shard
  writers.
- The `merge_insert` **`on`** columns default to, and are validated
against,
  the table's unenforced primary key.
- Shard writers are cached alongside the dataset (in
  `DatasetConsistencyWrapper`) and reused for the session.
- `MergeResult` gains **`num_rows`** — on the LSM path the insert/update
  breakdown is unknown until compaction, so only the total is reported.

Routing covers all three sharding strategies — bucket (murmur3,
Iceberg-compatible), identity, and unsharded. Each `merge_insert` call
targets
a single shard; the whole input is collected and validated before a
single
atomic `ShardWriter::put`, so a validation failure leaves the MemWAL
untouched.

Bindings: Python (`merge_insert(...).use_lsm_write(...)` /
`.assume_pre_sharded(...)`, `Table.close_lsm_writers`) and TypeScript
(`mergeInsert(...).useLsmWrite(...)` / `.assumePreSharded(...)`,
`Table.closeLsmWriters`).

## Context

Reconstructed from the original #3354 branch onto current `main`: the
branch
predated the #3394 (unenforced primary key) / #3396 (`LsmWriteSpec`)
split and
has been rebuilt on that merged foundation. Depends on Lance
`v7.0.0-beta.13`.

The MemWAL read path (reading un-flushed shard data back into queries)
and
remote (LanceDB Cloud) LSM support are follow-ups.

---------

Co-authored-by: Jack Ye <yezhaoqin@gmail.com>

docs/src/js/classes/MergeInsertBuilder.md

@@ -76,6 +76,57 @@ the query optimizer chooses a suboptimal path.
 
 ***
 
+### useLsmWrite()
+
+```ts
+useLsmWrite(useLsmWrite): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Controls whether the merge uses the MemWAL LSM write path.
+
+By default (unset), a `mergeInsert` on a table with an LSM write spec is
+routed through Lance's MemWAL shard writer, and a table without one uses
+the standard path. Pass `false` to force the standard path even when a
+spec is set. Pass `true` to require a spec — `mergeInsert` rejects if none
+is installed.
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **useLsmWrite**: `boolean`
+    Whether to use the LSM write path.
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)
+
+***
+
+### validateSingleShard()
+
+```ts
+validateSingleShard(validateSingleShard): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Controls how an LSM merge checks that its input targets a single shard.
+
+When a table has an LSM write spec, every row in a `mergeInsert` call must
+route to the same shard. When `true` (the default), every row is inspected
+to verify this. When `false`, only the first row is inspected and the
+shard it routes to is used for the whole input — a faster path for callers
+that have already pre-sharded their input. Has no effect on tables without
+an LSM write spec.
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **validateSingleShard**: `boolean`
+    Whether to check every row routes to one shard. Defaults to `true`.
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)
+
+***
+
 ### whenMatchedUpdateAll()
 
 ```ts

docs/src/js/classes/Table.md

@@ -187,6 +187,25 @@ Any attempt to use the table after it is closed will result in an error.
 
 ***
 
+### closeLsmWriters()
+
+```ts
+abstract closeLsmWriters(): Promise<void>
+```
+
+Drain and close any cached MemWAL shard writers held for this table.
+
+When an [LsmWriteSpec](../interfaces/LsmWriteSpec.md) is installed, `mergeInsert` opens MemWAL
+shard writers and caches them for reuse across calls. This closes them,
+flushing pending data; writers reopen lazily on the next `mergeInsert`.
+It is a no-op when no writers are cached.
+
+#### Returns
+
+`Promise`&lt;`void`&gt;
+
+***
+
 ### countRows()
 
 ```ts

docs/src/js/interfaces/LsmWriteSpec.md

@@ -11,7 +11,10 @@ Specification selecting Lance's MemWAL LSM-style write path for
 
 `specType` is `"bucket"`, `"identity"`, or `"unsharded"`. For `"bucket"`,
 `column` and `numBuckets` are required; for `"identity"`, `column` is
-required.
+required and must be a deterministic function of the unenforced primary
+key (every row with a given primary key must always produce the same
+`column` value, or upserts of that key can land in different shards and a
+stale version can win).
 
 ## Properties
 

docs/src/js/interfaces/MergeResult.md

@@ -32,6 +32,14 @@ numInsertedRows: number;
 
 ***
 
+### numRows
+
+```ts
+numRows: number;
+```
+
+***
+
 ### numUpdatedRows
 
 ```ts