feat(nodejs): add progress to Table.add (#3398)

### Summary

- Add an optional `progress` callback to `Table.add(data, { progress
})`. Callback fires once per batch written and once more with `done:
true` when the write completes.
- Errors thrown from the user's callback are logged with `console.warn`
and swallowed

### Testing
- npm test 
- ran smoke test script to verify functionality

docs/src/js/interfaces/AddDataOptions.md

@@ -19,3 +19,39 @@ mode: "append" | "overwrite";
 If "append" (the default) then the new data will be added to the table
 
 If "overwrite" then the new data will replace the existing data in the table.
+
+***
+
+### progress()
+
+```ts
+progress: (progress) => void;
+```
+
+Optional callback invoked periodically with write progress.
+
+The callback is fired once per batch written and once more with
+`done: true` when the write completes. Calls are dispatched
+asynchronously to the JS event loop and never block the write — a slow
+callback will queue events rather than back-pressure the writer.
+
+Errors thrown from the callback are logged with `console.warn` and
+swallowed — they do not abort the write.
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **progress**: [`WriteProgress`](WriteProgress.md)
+
+#### Returns
+
+`void`
+
+#### Example
+
+```ts
+await table.add(data, {
+  progress: (p) => {
+    console.log(`${p.outputRows}/${p.totalRows ?? "?"} rows`);
+  },
+});
+```