feat(nodejs): add progress to Table.add (#3398)

### Summary

- Add an optional `progress` callback to `Table.add(data, { progress
})`. Callback fires once per batch written and once more with `done:
true` when the write completes.
- Errors thrown from the user's callback are logged with `console.warn`
and swallowed

### Testing
- npm test 
- ran smoke test script to verify functionality

docs/src/js/interfaces/WriteProgress.md

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+[**@lancedb/lancedb**](../README.md) • **Docs**
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+***
+
+[@lancedb/lancedb](../globals.md) / WriteProgress
+
+# Interface: WriteProgress
+
+Progress snapshot for a write operation, delivered to the `progress`
+callback passed to [Table.add](../classes/Table.md#add).
+
+## Properties
+
+### activeTasks
+
+```ts
+activeTasks: number;
+```
+
+Number of parallel write tasks currently in flight.
+
+***
+
+### done
+
+```ts
+done: boolean;
+```
+
+`true` for the final callback; `false` otherwise.
+
+***
+
+### elapsedSeconds
+
+```ts
+elapsedSeconds: number;
+```
+
+Wall-clock seconds since the write started.
+
+***
+
+### outputBytes
+
+```ts
+outputBytes: number;
+```
+
+Number of bytes written so far.
+
+***
+
+### outputRows
+
+```ts
+outputRows: number;
+```
+
+Number of rows written so far.
+
+***
+
+### totalRows?
+
+```ts
+optional totalRows: number;
+```
+
+Total rows expected, when the input source reports it.
+
+Always set on the final callback (the one with `done: true`), falling
+back to the actual number of rows written when the source could not
+report a row count up front.
+
+***
+
+### totalTasks
+
+```ts
+totalTasks: number;
+```
+
+Total number of parallel write tasks (the write parallelism).