refactor(nodejs): use biomejs instead of eslint & prettier (#1304)

I've been noticing a lot of friction with the current toolchain for
'/nodejs'. Particularly with the usage of eslint and prettier.

[Biome](https://biomejs.dev/) is an all in one formatter & linter that
replaces the need for two different ones that can potentially clash with
one another.

I've been using it in the
[nodejs-polars](https://github.com/pola-rs/nodejs-polars) repo for quite
some time & have found it much more pleasant to work with.

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One other small change included in this PR:

use [ts-jest](https://www.npmjs.com/package/ts-jest) so we can run our
tests without having to rebuild typescript code first

nodejs/__test__/connection.test.ts

@@ -14,11 +14,13 @@
 
 import * as tmp from "tmp";
 
-import { Connection, connect } from "../dist/index.js";
+import { Connection, connect } from "../lancedb";
 
 describe("when connecting", () => {
   let tmpDir: tmp.DirResult;
-  beforeEach(() => (tmpDir = tmp.dirSync({ unsafeCleanup: true })));
+  beforeEach(() => {
+    tmpDir = tmp.dirSync({ unsafeCleanup: true });
+  });
   afterEach(() => tmpDir.removeCallback());
 
   it("should connect", async () => {