fix!: reject unsupported remote connection and table options (#4486)

Fixes #4399.

Remote connections currently discard local-only settings, including
table write options that determine storage format. The synchronous
Python client also binds the fourth positional `create_table` argument
to `on_bad_vectors`, so an intended overwrite is sent as a create.

This change aligns the remote Python signature with
`DBConnection.create_table`, preserves the legacy remote timeout
keywords, and raises `ValueError` for other unknown connection keywords.
The shared Rust client rejects unsupported connection, create, and open
options before sending HTTP requests; open validation also runs before a
table-cache hit. Python reports these as `NotImplementedError`,
including explicit `enable_v2_manifest_paths=False`. Supported
Enterprise connection-level storage options remain available.

This implements option 2 from the issue: explicit rejection. It
deliberately does not add unverified server write parameters. Calls that
previously supplied ignored options must omit them to use server-managed
storage and caching. Database URI prefixes are already preserved on
current main and are unchanged here.

Regression tests cover Python sync/async, TypeScript create/open calls,
and the Rust remote client, including empty-table creation, overwrite
mode, and cached table handles. Python API documentation describes the
behavior and corrected positional order.

Reconciled with main at `0ea932da`, preserving upstream blob and
error-handling tests and updating the Python test that previously
expected open options to be ignored.

Validation on the merged source:

- Rebuilt the Python native extension; 304 tests passed across remote
options, database, remote database, and session suites.
- Rust remote database suite: 135 passed. Rebuilt the Node native
extension; TypeScript remote suite: 62 passed. TypeScript compilation
and documentation generation passed.
- Full Python SDK lint and formatting pass (159 files); full TypeScript
lint and formatting pass (66 files). Rust formatting and `git diff
--check` pass.
- Repository-wide Python lint/format reports existing issues in
unchanged `docs/web-tests` files (49 lint findings and 11 formatting
files).

Environment: Ubuntu under WSL2, Linux x86-64, CPython 3.12.13, Rust
1.97.0, and Node.js 22.16.0. Locked dependencies and the repository `ci`
build profile. Remote tests use HTTP fixtures; this does not claim
validation against the original ARM64 single-node deployment.

Documentation review follow-up: added a draft Enterprise migration note
in `docs/web/basics/sdk.mdx`. It explains that `db://` connections
reject local session/cache and per-table storage/write options, while
supported connection-level Enterprise storage options remain available.
Following the repository's release conventions, the note stays in an MDX
comment below the migration list until the behavior is released. Vale
3.24.0 with the pinned LanceDB style package reports no findings; `git
diff --check` passes. This follow-up changes documentation only.

BREAKING CHANGE: Remote connections now reject unsupported local
session/cache and per-table storage/write options instead of silently
ignoring them. Callers must omit these options and use server-managed
storage and caching; supported Enterprise connection-level storage
options remain available.

Integration with current main preserves its synchronous API signatures,
including the remote `create_table(mode=None)` default, and the table
compatibility defaults. The positional-order repair is already on main
via #4608; this PR retains the distinct unsupported-option rejection
behavior.

CI follow-up: the inherited IVF search-effort test occasionally measured
recall 0.375 against its unchanged 0.5 threshold after random index
training. A matching local reproducer observed this once in 30 builds.
The fixture now places the eight exact neighbors together, preserving
the 16-partition setup, two writes, all probe/precedence assertions, and
the recall threshold. The adjusted fixture returned recall 1.0 in 100
builds; the full query and remote suites passed (102 tests). This
stabilizes test data and does not change search behavior or promise
production recall.

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Co-authored-by: Xuanwo <github@xuanwo.io>

docs/web/basics/sdk.mdx

@@ -92,6 +92,13 @@ manages background maintenance.
   [background maintenance](/maintenance/background-jobs) rather than calling
   the embedded table's `optimize()` method.
 
+{/* Draft for the remote option validation release.
+- **Remove local storage and cache settings.** `db://` connections reject local
+  sessions, table cache settings, and per-table storage and write options. Omit
+  these options so Enterprise manages storage and caching. Connection-level
+  storage options supported by your Enterprise deployment remain available.
+*/}
+
 For SQL connection details, see [SQL](/basics/sql). For the operating model and
 deployment options, see [LanceDB Enterprise](/enterprise).