ci: add spell checking (#4148)

Adds [typos](https://github.com/crate-ci/typos) as a CI check and
pre-commit hook, the same way Lance does it, so misspellings like the
ones fixed in #4146 get caught automatically going forward.

This also fixes the misspellings `typos` found across the repo (Rust,
Python, TypeScript source, comments, and generated docs), and adds a
small `.typos.toml` with `extend-words` entries for terms that are
correct but look like typos: `AKS` (Azure Kubernetes Service), `RabitQ`
(a real quantization algorithm name), `mmaped` (the actual name of a
`candle-core` API we call), and `Writeable` (from Python's
`_typeshed.WriteableBuffer`). Third-party license files are excluded.

Fixes #4147

Co-authored-by: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/src/js/classes/MergeInsertBuilder.md

@@ -141,7 +141,7 @@ Currently this causes multiple copies of the row to be created
 but that behavior is subject to change.
 
 An optional condition may be specified.  If it is, then only
-matched rows that satisfy the condtion will be updated.  Any
+matched rows that satisfy the condition will be updated.  Any
 rows that do not satisfy the condition will be left as they
 are.  Failing to satisfy the condition does not cause a
 "matched row" to become a "not matched" row.

docs/src/js/classes/Table.md

@@ -1266,7 +1266,7 @@ value is 0")
 Note: if your condition is something like "some_id_column == 7" and
 you are updating many rows (with different ids) then you will get
 better performance with a single [`merge_insert`] call instead of
-repeatedly calilng this method.
+repeatedly calling this method.
 
 ##### Parameters