ci: add spell checking (#4148)

Adds [typos](https://github.com/crate-ci/typos) as a CI check and
pre-commit hook, the same way Lance does it, so misspellings like the
ones fixed in #4146 get caught automatically going forward.

This also fixes the misspellings `typos` found across the repo (Rust,
Python, TypeScript source, comments, and generated docs), and adds a
small `.typos.toml` with `extend-words` entries for terms that are
correct but look like typos: `AKS` (Azure Kubernetes Service), `RabitQ`
(a real quantization algorithm name), `mmaped` (the actual name of a
`candle-core` API we call), and `Writeable` (from Python's
`_typeshed.WriteableBuffer`). Third-party license files are excluded.

Fixes #4147

Co-authored-by: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

python/python/tests/test_table.py

@@ -3354,7 +3354,7 @@ def test_empty_query(mem_db: DBConnection):
     # None is the same as default
     df = table.search().select(["id"]).limit(None).to_arrow()
     assert df.num_rows == 100
-    # invalid limist is the same as None, wihch is the same as default
+    # invalid limist is the same as None, which is the same as default
     df = table.search().select(["id"]).limit(-1).to_arrow()
     assert df.num_rows == 100
     # valid limit should work