feat: add a basic async python client starting point (#1014)

This changes `lancedb` from a "pure python" setuptools project to a
maturin project and adds a rust lancedb dependency.

The async python client is extremely minimal (only `connect` and
`Connection.table_names` are supported). The purpose of this PR is to
get the infrastructure in place for building out the rest of the async
client.

Although this is not technically a breaking change (no APIs are
changing) it is still a considerable change in the way the wheels are
built because they now include the native shared library.

.gitignore

@@ -22,6 +22,11 @@ python/dist
 
 **/.hypothesis
 
+# Compiled Dynamic libraries
+*.so
+*.dylib
+*.dll
+
 ## Javascript
 *.node
 **/node_modules