fix(python): expose optimize compaction options (#3870)

## Summary
- expose typed compaction options on synchronous and asynchronous table
optimization
- translate validated Python options into native Lance compaction
settings
- document the row-based steady-state limit and first-pass/source-budget
caveats
- carry the Lance beta.15 fragment-exclusion option through the typed
Python API

## Root cause
The native Python optimize binding always constructed default compaction
settings, and the public AsyncTable API offered no way to lower the
fragment row target. Wide-row fragments therefore remained compaction
candidates on every later optimize call, repeatedly rewriting the
accumulated table.

## Limitations
This is an explicit row-based mitigation, not byte-native task sizing or
a hard memory cap. Callers must derive target_rows_per_fragment from
expected row size. Existing oversized fragments are rewritten whole on
the first pass; max_bytes_per_file limits output file size rather than
compaction memory; and source budgets admit whole planned tasks, so a
budget below the first task performs no compaction. Splitting tasks by a
byte budget or returning a planner error requires a Lance-side change.

## Validation
- cargo check --release -p lancedb-python
- cargo clippy --quiet -p lancedb-python
- cargo fmt --all --check
- ruff format --check python tests
- ruff check python tests
- uv run --no-sync pytest python/tests/test_table.py -k
optimize_compaction -q (16 passed)

Fixes #2325

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docs/src/python/python.md

@@ -329,6 +329,8 @@ code that used the former remote-only argument order.
 
 ::: lancedb.table.Table
 
+::: lancedb.table.CompactionOptions
+
 ::: lancedb.table.FragmentStatistics
 
 ::: lancedb.table.FragmentSummaryStats