chore: update lance dependency to v1.0.0 (#2867)

## Summary
- update all lance crates to v1.0.0 using the helper script (fallbacks
to the v1.0.0 tag)
- refresh Cargo.lock to pull the new release
- add script fallback to retry with the git tag when a crates.io release
is unavailable

## Testing
- cargo clippy --workspace --tests --all-features -- -D warnings
- cargo fmt --all

Tag: https://github.com/lance-format/lance/releases/tag/v1.0.0

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Co-authored-by: Jack Ye <yezhaoqin@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/nodejs.yml

@@ -88,7 +88,7 @@ jobs:
         npm install -g @napi-rs/cli
     - name: Build
       run: |
-        npm ci
+        npm ci --include=optional
         npm run build:debug -- --profile ci
         npm run tsc
     - name: Setup localstack
@@ -146,7 +146,7 @@ jobs:
         npm install -g @napi-rs/cli
     - name: Build
       run: |
-        npm ci
+        npm ci --include=optional
         npm run build:debug -- --profile ci
         npm run tsc
     - name: Test