feat(python): hybrid search updates, examples, & latency benchmarks (#964)

- Rename safe_import -> attempt_import_or_raise (closes
https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/pull/923)
- Update docs
- Add Notebook example (@changhiskhan you can use it for the talk. Comes
with "open in colab" button)
- Latency benchmark & results comparison, sanity check on real-world
data
- Updates the default openai model to gpt-4

docs/src/embeddings/default_embedding_functions.md

@@ -9,6 +9,9 @@ Contains the text embedding functions registered by default.
 ### Sentence transformers
 Allows you to set parameters when registering a `sentence-transformers` object.
 
+!!! info
+    Sentence transformer embeddings are normalized by default. It is recommended to use normalized embeddings for similarity search.
+
 | Parameter | Type | Default Value | Description |
 |---|---|---|---|
 | `name` | `str` | `all-MiniLM-L6-v2` | The name of the model |