ci: make preview releases (#1302)

This PR changes the release process. Some parts are more complex, and
other parts I've simplified.

## Simplifications

* Combined `Create Release Commit` and `Create Python Release Commit`
into a single workflow. By default, it does a release of all packages,
but you can still choose to make just a Python or just Node/Rust release
through the arguments. This will make it rarer that we create a Node
release but forget about Python or vice-versa.
* Releases are automatically generated once a tag is pushed. This
eliminates the manual step of creating the release.
* Release notes are automatically generated and changes are categorized
based on the PR labels.
* Removed the use of `LANCEDB_RELEASE_TOKEN` in favor of just using
`GITHUB_TOKEN` where it wasn't necessary. In the one place it is
necessary, I left a comment as to why it is.
* Reused the version in `python/Cargo.toml` so we don't have two
different versions in Python LanceDB.

## New changes

* We now can create `preview` / `beta` releases. By default `Create
Release Commit` will create a preview release, but you can select a
"stable" release type and it will create a full stable release.
  * For Python, pre-releases go to fury.io instead of PyPI
* `bump2version` was deprecated, so upgraded to `bump-my-version`. This
also seems to better support semantic versioning with pre-releases.
* `ci` changes will now be shown in the changelog, allowing changes like
this to be visible to users. `chore` is still hidden.

## Versioning

**NOTE**: unlike how it is in lance repo right now, the version in main
is the last one released, including beta versions.

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Co-authored-by: Lance Release <lance-dev@lancedb.com>
Co-authored-by: Weston Pace <weston.pace@gmail.com>

docs/src/basic.md

@@ -44,6 +44,36 @@
 
     !!! info "Please also make sure you're using the same version of Arrow as in the [lancedb crate](https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/blob/main/Cargo.toml)"
 
+### Preview releases
+
+Stable releases are created about every 2 weeks. For the latest features and bug
+fixes, you can install the preview release. These releases receive the same
+level of testing as stable releases, but are not guaranteed to be available for
+more than 6 months after they are released. Once your application is stable, we
+recommend switching to stable releases.
+
+=== "Python"
+
+      ```shell
+      pip install --pre --extra-index-url https://pypi.fury.io/lancedb/ lancedb
+      ```
+
+=== "Typescript"
+
+      ```shell
+      npm install vectordb@preview
+      ```
+
+=== "Rust"
+    
+    We don't push preview releases to crates.io, but you can referent the tag
+    in GitHub within your Cargo dependencies:
+
+    ```toml
+    [dependencies]
+    lancedb = { git = "https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb.git", tag = "vX.Y.Z-beta.N" }
+    ```
+
 ## Connect to a database
 
 === "Python"