feat(python): align to_pandas pandas kwargs (#3397)

## Feature

This PR aligns LanceDB Python `to_pandas()` APIs with Lance pandas
conversion capabilities while keeping LanceDB query-specific semantics
intact.

- Adds `blob_mode` and pandas `**kwargs` support to local table
`to_pandas()`.
- Delegates local `LanceTable.to_pandas()` to Lance dataset
`to_pandas(blob_mode=..., **kwargs)`.
- Keeps remote table `to_pandas()` unsupported with
`NotImplementedError`.
- Allows sync and async query `to_pandas()` to forward pandas kwargs
after LanceDB `flatten` and `timeout` handling.

Why we need this feature:

Users can access Lance blob-aware pandas conversion from LanceDB local
tables and can pass PyArrow pandas conversion options through
table/query APIs without losing existing `flatten` or `timeout`
behavior.

How it works:

The table API exposes a `BlobMode` literal type for `lazy`, `bytes`, and
`descriptions`. Local tables call through to the backing Lance dataset.
Query APIs do not add `blob_mode`; they materialize Arrow results, apply
LanceDB flattening when requested, and then call `to_pandas(**kwargs)`.

## Validation

- `uv run --frozen --extra tests pytest
python/tests/test_table.py::test_table_to_pandas_default_matches_arrow
python/tests/test_table.py::test_table_to_pandas_blob_bytes
python/tests/test_table.py::test_table_to_pandas_kwargs
python/tests/test_query.py::test_query_to_pandas_kwargs
python/tests/test_query.py::test_query_timeout
python/tests/test_remote_db.py::test_table_to_pandas_not_supported`
- `uv run --frozen --extra dev ruff check python/lancedb/table.py
python/lancedb/query.py python/lancedb/remote/table.py
python/tests/test_table.py python/tests/test_query.py
python/tests/test_remote_db.py`
- `uv run --frozen --extra tests pytest python/tests/test_table.py
python/tests/test_query.py python/tests/test_remote_db.py`

Note: `python/uv.lock` was intentionally not committed in this branch.

.github/workflows/python.yml

@@ -205,7 +205,7 @@ jobs:
       - name: Delete wheels
         run: rm -rf target/wheels
   pydantic1x:
-    timeout-minutes: 30
+    timeout-minutes: 60
     runs-on: "ubuntu-24.04"
     defaults:
       run: