fix(python): guard concurrent table deletes (#3787)

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## Root cause

The legacy synchronous Python table called `delete` on a shared, mutable
`lance.Dataset`. Concurrent table operations could hold a PyO3 borrow
while delete requested an exclusive borrow, producing `RuntimeError:
Already borrowed`. The current async-backed binding fixes this by
cloning its thread-safe Rust table handle before awaiting, but that
concurrency contract had no regression coverage.

## Fix

- Document why delete must clone the Rust table handle before entering
its async future.
- Add a barrier-synchronized regression test that deletes distinct rows
through one shared table from eight Python threads.
- Verify every delete commits exactly one row, every commit gets a
distinct version, and no rows remain.

## Validation

- `cargo check --quiet --features remote --tests --examples`
- `cargo fmt --all -- --check`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev ruff format --check
python/tests/test_table.py`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev ruff check
python/tests/test_table.py`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev pytest
python/tests/test_table.py::test_concurrent_deletes_are_thread_safe
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete_expr
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete_expr_async -q` (4 passed)
- Manual stress reproduction: 100 concurrent deletes on one table
completed at versions 2–101 with zero rows remaining.

Fixes #530

Co-authored-by: Gatefixer <313497061+lancedb-gatefixer[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

python/python/tests/test_table.py

@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ import os
 import sys
 import threading
 import warnings
+from concurrent.futures import ThreadPoolExecutor
 from datetime import date, datetime, timedelta
 from time import sleep
 from typing import List
@@ -2124,6 +2125,27 @@ def test_delete(mem_db: DBConnection):
     assert table.to_arrow()["id"].to_pylist() == [1]
 
 
+def test_concurrent_deletes_are_thread_safe(mem_db: DBConnection):
+    num_workers = 8
+    table = mem_db.create_table(
+        "my_table", data=[{"id": row_id} for row_id in range(num_workers)]
+    )
+    barrier = threading.Barrier(num_workers)
+
+    def delete(row_id: int):
+        barrier.wait()
+        return table.delete(f"id = {row_id}")
+
+    with ThreadPoolExecutor(max_workers=num_workers) as pool:
+        results = list(pool.map(delete, range(num_workers)))
+
+    assert all(result.num_deleted_rows == 1 for result in results)
+    assert sorted(result.version for result in results) == list(
+        range(2, num_workers + 2)
+    )
+    assert table.count_rows() == 0
+
+
 def test_delete_expr(mem_db: DBConnection):
     table = mem_db.create_table(
         "my_table",