fix(python): guard concurrent table deletes (#3787)

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## Root cause

The legacy synchronous Python table called `delete` on a shared, mutable
`lance.Dataset`. Concurrent table operations could hold a PyO3 borrow
while delete requested an exclusive borrow, producing `RuntimeError:
Already borrowed`. The current async-backed binding fixes this by
cloning its thread-safe Rust table handle before awaiting, but that
concurrency contract had no regression coverage.

## Fix

- Document why delete must clone the Rust table handle before entering
its async future.
- Add a barrier-synchronized regression test that deletes distinct rows
through one shared table from eight Python threads.
- Verify every delete commits exactly one row, every commit gets a
distinct version, and no rows remain.

## Validation

- `cargo check --quiet --features remote --tests --examples`
- `cargo fmt --all -- --check`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev ruff format --check
python/tests/test_table.py`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev ruff check
python/tests/test_table.py`
- `uv run --extra tests --extra dev pytest
python/tests/test_table.py::test_concurrent_deletes_are_thread_safe
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete_expr
python/tests/test_table.py::test_delete_expr_async -q` (4 passed)
- Manual stress reproduction: 100 concurrent deletes on one table
completed at versions 2–101 with zero rows remaining.

Fixes #530

Co-authored-by: Gatefixer <313497061+lancedb-gatefixer[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

python/src/table.rs

@@ -745,6 +745,9 @@ impl Table {
 
     #[allow(private_interfaces)]
     pub fn delete(self_: PyRef<'_, Self>, condition: PredicateArg) -> PyResult<Bound<'_, PyAny>> {
+        // Do not hold the Python borrow across the await.  The cloned Rust table
+        // handle is thread-safe and allows deletes on the same Python table to
+        // run concurrently without PyO3 reporting "Already borrowed".
         let inner = self_.inner_ref()?.clone();
         future_into_py(self_.py(), async move {
             let result = match &condition {