fix: get table size from metadata, not files (#3790)

Some issues:
- file_size_bytes is optional in the manifest, so if it's not there (old
writer I guess) it'll under-report the table size.
- it changes results a little bit from the old way by including per-file
footers and metadata (probably not a big difference at real scale)

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Co-authored-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>

nodejs/src/table.rs

@@ -1043,7 +1043,10 @@ impl From<lancedb::index::IndexStatistics> for IndexStatistics {
 
 #[napi(object)]
 pub struct TableStatistics {
-    /// The total number of bytes in the table
+    /// The total size, in bytes, of the table's data files, index files, and
+    /// overlay files
+    ///
+    /// Read from the manifest, so this excludes deletion files and manifests.
     pub total_bytes: i64,
 
     /// The number of rows in the table