fix: get table size from metadata, not files (#3790)

Some issues:
- file_size_bytes is optional in the manifest, so if it's not there (old
writer I guess) it'll under-report the table size.
- it changes results a little bit from the old way by including per-file
footers and metadata (probably not a big difference at real scale)

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Co-authored-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>

python/python/tests/test_table.py

@@ -3713,7 +3713,8 @@ def test_stats(mem_db: DBConnection):
     stats = table.stats()
     print(f"{stats=}")
     assert stats == {
-        "total_bytes": 60,
+        # Full on-disk size of the data file, footer and metadata included.
+        "total_bytes": 633,
         "num_rows": 2,
         "num_indices": 0,
         "fragment_stats": {
@@ -3731,6 +3732,13 @@ def test_stats(mem_db: DBConnection):
         },
     }
 
+    # Index files count toward total_bytes too (only deletion files and
+    # manifests are excluded).
+    table.create_index("id", config=BTree())
+    stats_with_index = table.stats()
+    assert stats_with_index["num_indices"] == 1
+    assert stats_with_index["total_bytes"] > stats["total_bytes"]
+
 
 def test_create_table_empty_list_with_schema(mem_db: DBConnection):
     """Test creating table with empty list data and schema