ci(python): stop using deprecated 2_24 manylinux for arm (#2064)

Based on changes made in Lance:

* https://github.com/lancedb/lance/pull/3409
* https://github.com/lancedb/lance/pull/3411

.github/workflows/build_linux_wheel/action.yml

@@ -52,12 +52,7 @@ runs:
         args: ${{ inputs.args }}
         before-script-linux: |
           set -e
-          apt install -y unzip
-          if [ $(uname -m) = "x86_64" ]; then
-            PROTOC_ARCH="x86_64"
-          else
-            PROTOC_ARCH="aarch_64"
-          fi
-          curl -L https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/releases/download/v24.4/protoc-24.4-linux-$PROTOC_ARCH.zip > /tmp/protoc.zip \
+          yum install -y openssl-devel clang \
+            && curl -L https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/releases/download/v24.4/protoc-24.4-linux-aarch_64.zip > /tmp/protoc.zip \
             && unzip /tmp/protoc.zip -d /usr/local \
             && rm /tmp/protoc.zip

.github/workflows/pypi-publish.yml

@@ -15,15 +15,21 @@ jobs:
           - platform: x86_64
             manylinux: "2_17"
             extra_args: ""
+            runner: ubuntu-22.04
           - platform: x86_64
             manylinux: "2_28"
             extra_args: "--features fp16kernels"
+            runner: ubuntu-22.04
           - platform: aarch64
-            manylinux: "2_24"
+            manylinux: "2_17"
             extra_args: ""
-          # We don't build fp16 kernels for aarch64, because it uses 
-          # cross compilation image, which doesn't have a new enough compiler.
-    runs-on: "ubuntu-22.04"
+            # For successful fat LTO builds, we need a large runner to avoid OOM errors.
+            runner: ubuntu-2404-8x-arm64
+          - platform: aarch64
+            manylinux: "2_28"
+            extra_args: "--features fp16kernels"
+            runner: ubuntu-2404-8x-arm64
+    runs-on: ${{ matrix.config.runner }}
     steps:
       - uses: actions/checkout@v4
         with: