feat(nodejs): feature parity [6/N] - make public interface work with multiple arrow versions (#1392)

previously we didnt have great compatibility with other versions of
apache arrow. This should bridge that gap a bit.


depends on https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/pull/1391
see actual diff here
https://github.com/universalmind303/lancedb/compare/query-filter...universalmind303:arrow-compatibility

nodejs/__test__/table.test.ts

@@ -39,7 +39,9 @@ describe.each([arrow, arrowOld])("Given a table", (arrow: any) => {
   let tmpDir: tmp.DirResult;
   let table: Table;
 
-  const schema = new arrow.Schema([
+  const schema:
+    | import("apache-arrow").Schema
+    | import("apache-arrow-old").Schema = new arrow.Schema([
     new arrow.Field("id", new arrow.Float64(), true),
   ]);
 
@@ -315,7 +317,7 @@ describe("When creating an index", () => {
       .query()
       .limit(2)
       .nearestTo(queryVec)
-      .distanceType("DoT")
+      .distanceType("dot")
       .toArrow();
     expect(rst.numRows).toBe(2);