feat(nodejs): feature parity [6/N] - make public interface work with multiple arrow versions (#1392)

previously we didnt have great compatibility with other versions of
apache arrow. This should bridge that gap a bit.


depends on https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/pull/1391
see actual diff here
https://github.com/universalmind303/lancedb/compare/query-filter...universalmind303:arrow-compatibility

nodejs/lancedb/query.ts

@@ -300,7 +300,9 @@ export class VectorQuery extends QueryBase<NativeVectorQuery, VectorQuery> {
    *
    * By default "l2" is used.
    */
-  distanceType(distanceType: string): VectorQuery {
+  distanceType(
+    distanceType: Required<IvfPqOptions>["distanceType"],
+  ): VectorQuery {
     this.inner.distanceType(distanceType);
     return this;
   }