fix: support double-quoted filter identifiers (#3825)

## Summary

- tokenize predicates with the same GenericDialect lexical rules Lance
delegates to
- rewrite only SQL-standard double-quoted identifier tokens to Lance
backticks
- apply one predicate contract to query, count, update, delete, and both
merge conditions
- cover mixed-case identifiers, ordinary literals, comments, and every
filter-bearing table operation

## Root cause

Lance plans double-quoted tokens as string literals for compatibility.
As a result, `"PartyAbbrev" = 'D'` compared two literals and silently
evaluated to false instead of filtering the mixed-case column.

## Validation

- `cargo fmt --all -- --check`
- `cargo test --locked --quiet --features remote -p lancedb
expr::sql::tests`
- `cargo test --locked --quiet --features remote -p lancedb
test_double_quoted_predicates_across_table_operations`
- `cargo check --quiet --features remote --tests --examples`
- `cargo clippy --quiet --features remote --tests --examples`

Fixes #2057

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Co-authored-by: Gatefixer <313497061+lancedb-gatefixer[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Xuanwo <github@xuanwo.io>

nodejs/examples/basic.test.ts

@@ -170,7 +170,7 @@ test("basic table examples", async () => {
     // --8<-- [end:create_index]
 
     // --8<-- [start:delete_rows]
-    await tbl.delete('item = "fizz"');
+    await tbl.delete("item = 'fizz'");
     // --8<-- [end:delete_rows]
 
     // --8<-- [start:drop_table]