chore: fix ci (#3139)

* Move away from buildjet, which is shutting down runners for GHA [^1]
* Add `Cargo.lock` to build jobs, so when we upgrade locked dependencies
we check the builds actually pass. CI started failing because
dependencies were changed in #3116 without running all build jobs.
* Add fixes for aws-lc-rs build in NodeJS.

[^1]: https://buildjet.com/for-github-actions/blog/we-are-shutting-down

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Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/src/js/interfaces/OptimizeOptions.md

@@ -37,3 +37,12 @@ tbl.optimize({cleanupOlderThan: new Date()});
 ```ts
 deleteUnverified: boolean;
 ```
+
+Because they may be part of an in-progress transaction, files newer than
+7 days old are not deleted by default. If you are sure that there are no
+in-progress transactions, then you can set this to true to delete all
+files older than `cleanupOlderThan`.
+
+**WARNING**: This should only be set to true if you can guarantee that
+no other process is currently working on this dataset. Otherwise the
+dataset could be put into a corrupted state.