ci: fix Node ARM release build (#971)

When we turned on fat LTO builds, we made the release build job **much**
more compute and memory intensive. The ARM runners have particularly low
memory per core, which makes them susceptible to OOM errors. To avoid
issues, I have enabled memory swap on ARM and bumped the side of the
runner.

ci/build_linux_artifacts.sh

@@ -13,7 +13,9 @@ docker build \
     .
 popd
 
+# We turn on memory swap to avoid OOM killer
 docker run \
     -v $(pwd):/io -w /io \
+    --memory-swap=-1 \
     lancedb-node-manylinux \
     bash ci/manylinux_node/build.sh $ARCH