feat(nodejs): feature parity [2/N] - add table.name and lancedb.connect({args}) (#1380)

depends on https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/pull/1378

see proper diff here
https://github.com/universalmind303/lancedb/compare/remote-table-node...universalmind303:lancedb:table-name

nodejs/src/lib.rs

@@ -28,8 +28,6 @@ mod util;
 #[napi(object)]
 #[derive(Debug)]
 pub struct ConnectionOptions {
-    pub api_key: Option<String>,
-    pub host_override: Option<String>,
     /// (For LanceDB OSS only): The interval, in seconds, at which to check for
     /// updates to the table from other processes. If None, then consistency is not
     /// checked. For performance reasons, this is the default. For strong