feat(nodejs): catch unwinds in node bindings (#1414)

this bumps napi version to 2.16 which contains a few bug fixes.
Additionally, it adds `catch_unwind` to any method that may
unintentionally panic.

`catch_unwind` will unwind the panics and return a regular JS error
instead of panicking.

nodejs/src/iterator.rs

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ impl RecordBatchIterator {
         Self { inner }
     }
 
-    #[napi]
+    #[napi(catch_unwind)]
     pub async unsafe fn next(&mut self) -> napi::Result<Option<Buffer>> {
         if let Some(rst) = self.inner.next().await {
             let batch = rst.map_err(|e| {