feat(nodejs): merge insert (#1351)

closes https://github.com/lancedb/lancedb/issues/1349

nodejs/src/merge.rs

@@ -0,0 +1,53 @@
+use lancedb::{arrow::IntoArrow, ipc::ipc_file_to_batches, table::merge::MergeInsertBuilder};
+use napi::bindgen_prelude::*;
+use napi_derive::napi;
+
+#[napi]
+#[derive(Clone)]
+/// A builder used to create and run a merge insert operation
+pub struct NativeMergeInsertBuilder {
+    pub(crate) inner: MergeInsertBuilder,
+}
+
+#[napi]
+impl NativeMergeInsertBuilder {
+    #[napi]
+    pub fn when_matched_update_all(&self, condition: Option<String>) -> Self {
+        let mut this = self.clone();
+        this.inner.when_matched_update_all(condition);
+        this
+    }
+
+    #[napi]
+    pub fn when_not_matched_insert_all(&self) -> Self {
+        let mut this = self.clone();
+        this.inner.when_not_matched_insert_all();
+        this
+    }
+    #[napi]
+    pub fn when_not_matched_by_source_delete(&self, filter: Option<String>) -> Self {
+        let mut this = self.clone();
+        this.inner.when_not_matched_by_source_delete(filter);
+        this
+    }
+
+    #[napi]
+    pub async fn execute(&self, buf: Buffer) -> napi::Result<()> {
+        let data = ipc_file_to_batches(buf.to_vec())
+            .and_then(IntoArrow::into_arrow)
+            .map_err(|e| napi::Error::from_reason(format!("Failed to read IPC file: {}", e)))?;
+
+        let this = self.clone();
+
+        this.inner
+            .execute(data)
+            .await
+            .map_err(|e| napi::Error::from_reason(format!("Failed to execute merge insert: {}", e)))
+    }
+}
+
+impl From<MergeInsertBuilder> for NativeMergeInsertBuilder {
+    fn from(inner: MergeInsertBuilder) -> Self {
+        Self { inner }
+    }
+}