feat: add update_field_metadata to edit per-field metadata (#3482)

### Summary
Adds update_field_metadata to the client SDK (Rust core, Python, and
TypeScript) so clients can edit per-field (column) Arrow metadata
(schema.fields[].metadata)

### Testing
- added unit tests
- ran E2E against a local server on both local and remote tables (set →
merge → delete), across Python sync/async and TypeScript

### Next steps
- deprecate replace_field_metadata in the python lancedb favor of this
(typescript didn't have replace_field_metadata method). This matches
Lance's API direction (Lance already deprecated replace_field_metadata
for update_field_metadata)

docs/src/js/interfaces/UpdateFieldMetadataResult.md

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+[**@lancedb/lancedb**](../README.md) • **Docs**
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+***
+
+[@lancedb/lancedb](../globals.md) / UpdateFieldMetadataResult
+
+# Interface: UpdateFieldMetadataResult
+
+## Properties
+
+### version
+
+```ts
+version: number;
+```