fix: make cloud features optional (#2567) (#2568)

This shrinks the size of a local embedded build that can disable all the
default features. When combined with
https://github.com/lancedb/lance/pull/4362 and the dependencies are
updated to point to the fix, this resolves #2567 fully.

Verified by patching the workspace to redirect to my clone of lance with
the PR applied.
```
cargo tree -p lancedb -e no-build -e no-dev --no-default-features -i aws-config | less
```

The reason that lance itself needs to change too is that many
dependencies within that project depend on lance-io/default and lancedb
depends on them which transitively ends up enabling the cloud
regardless. The PR in lance removes the dependency on lance-io/default
from all sibling crates.

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Co-authored-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>

java/core/lancedb-jni/Cargo.toml

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ publish = false
 crate-type = ["cdylib"]
 
 [dependencies]
-lancedb = { path = "../../../rust/lancedb" }
+lancedb = { path = "../../../rust/lancedb", default-features = false }
 lance = { workspace = true }
 arrow = { workspace = true, features = ["ffi"] }
 arrow-schema.workspace = true
@@ -25,3 +25,6 @@ snafu.workspace = true
 lazy_static.workspace = true
 serde = { version = "^1" }
 serde_json = { version = "1" }
+
+[features]
+default = ["lancedb/default"]