ci(node): check docs in CI (#2084)

* Make `npm run docs` fail if there are any warnings. This will catch
items missing from the API reference.
* Add a check in our CI to make sure `npm run dos` runs without warnings
and doesn't generate any new files (indicating it might be out-of-date.
* Hide constructors that aren't user facing.
* Remove unused enum `WriteMode`.

Closes #2068

docs/src/js/classes/MergeInsertBuilder.md

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+[**@lancedb/lancedb**](../README.md) • **Docs**
+
+***
+
+[@lancedb/lancedb](../globals.md) / MergeInsertBuilder
+
+# Class: MergeInsertBuilder
+
+A builder used to create and run a merge insert operation
+
+## Constructors
+
+### new MergeInsertBuilder()
+
+```ts
+new MergeInsertBuilder(native, schema): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Construct a MergeInsertBuilder. __Internal use only.__
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **native**: `NativeMergeInsertBuilder`
+
+* **schema**: `Schema`<`any`> \| `Promise`<`Schema`<`any`>>
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)
+
+## Methods
+
+### execute()
+
+```ts
+execute(data): Promise<void>
+```
+
+Executes the merge insert operation
+
+Nothing is returned but the `Table` is updated
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **data**: [`Data`](../type-aliases/Data.md)
+
+#### Returns
+
+`Promise`&lt;`void`&gt;
+
+***
+
+### whenMatchedUpdateAll()
+
+```ts
+whenMatchedUpdateAll(options?): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Rows that exist in both the source table (new data) and
+the target table (old data) will be updated, replacing
+the old row with the corresponding matching row.
+
+If there are multiple matches then the behavior is undefined.
+Currently this causes multiple copies of the row to be created
+but that behavior is subject to change.
+
+An optional condition may be specified.  If it is, then only
+matched rows that satisfy the condtion will be updated.  Any
+rows that do not satisfy the condition will be left as they
+are.  Failing to satisfy the condition does not cause a
+"matched row" to become a "not matched" row.
+
+The condition should be an SQL string.  Use the prefix
+target. to refer to rows in the target table (old data)
+and the prefix source. to refer to rows in the source
+table (new data).
+
+For example, "target.last_update < source.last_update"
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **options?**
+
+* **options.where?**: `string`
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)
+
+***
+
+### whenNotMatchedBySourceDelete()
+
+```ts
+whenNotMatchedBySourceDelete(options?): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Rows that exist only in the target table (old data) will be
+deleted.  An optional condition can be provided to limit what
+data is deleted.
+
+#### Parameters
+
+* **options?**
+
+* **options.where?**: `string`
+    An optional condition to limit what data is deleted
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)
+
+***
+
+### whenNotMatchedInsertAll()
+
+```ts
+whenNotMatchedInsertAll(): MergeInsertBuilder
+```
+
+Rows that exist only in the source table (new data) should
+be inserted into the target table.
+
+#### Returns
+
+[`MergeInsertBuilder`](MergeInsertBuilder.md)