feat: upgrade lance to stable version (#2420)

Adds a script to change the lance dependency easily. To make this
change, I just had to run:

```bash
python ci/set_lance_version.py stable
```

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
- Added a script to automate updating the Lance package version in
project dependencies.
- **Chores**
- Updated workflows to improve lockfile management and automate updates
during releases and publishing.
- Switched Lance dependencies from git-based references to fixed version
numbers for improved stability.
- Enhanced lockfile update script with an option to amend commits and
quieter output.
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.github/workflows/make-release-commit.yml

@@ -84,7 +84,7 @@ jobs:
         run: |
           pip install bump-my-version PyGithub packaging
           bash ci/bump_version.sh ${{ inputs.type }} ${{ inputs.bump-minor }} v $COMMIT_BEFORE_BUMP
-          bash ci/update_lockfiles.sh
+          bash ci/update_lockfiles.sh --amend
       - name: Push new version tag
         if: ${{ !inputs.dry_run }}
         uses: ad-m/github-push-action@master

.github/workflows/npm-publish.yml

@@ -505,6 +505,8 @@ jobs:
     name: vectordb NPM Publish
     needs: [node, node-macos, node-linux-gnu, node-windows]
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
+    permissions:
+      contents: write
     # Only runs on tags that matches the make-release action
     if: startsWith(github.ref, 'refs/tags/v')
     steps:
@@ -537,6 +539,10 @@ jobs:
         # We need to deprecate the old package to avoid confusion.
         # Each time we publish a new version, it gets undeprecated.
         run: npm deprecate vectordb "Use @lancedb/lancedb instead."
+      - name: Update package-lock.json
+        run: bash ci/update_lockfiles.sh
+      - name: Push new commit
+        uses: ad-m/github-push-action@master
       - name: Notify Slack Action
         uses: ravsamhq/notify-slack-action@2.3.0
         if: ${{ always() }}