This PR fixes build issues associated with `aws-lc-rs`, while
simplifying the build process. Previously, we used custom scripts for
the musl and Windows ARM builds. These were complicated and prone to
breaking. This PR switches to a setup that mirrors
https://github.com/napi-rs/package-template/blob/main/.github/workflows/CI.yml.
* linux glibc and musl builds now use the Docker images provided by the
napi project
* Windows ARM build now just cross compiles from Windows x64, which
turns out to work quite well.
