pageserver: make imports work with tenant shut downs (#11855)

## Problem

Lifetime of imported timelines (and implicitly the import background
task) has some shortcomings:
1. Timeline activation upon import completion is tricky. Previously, a
timeline that finished importing
after a tenant detach would not get activated and there's concerns about
the safety of activating
concurrently with shut-down.
2. Import jobs can prevent tenant shut down since they hold the tenant
gate

## Summary of Changes

Track the import tasks in memory and abort them explicitly on tenant
shutdown.

Integrate more closely with the storage controller:
1. When an import task has finished all of its jobs, it notifies the
storage controller, but **does not** mark the import as done in the
index_part. When all shards have finished importing, the storage
controller will call the `/activate_post_import` idempotent endpoint for
all of them. The handler, marks the import complete in index part,
resets the tenant if required and checks if the timeline is active yet.
2. Not directly related, but the import job now gets the starting state
from the storage controller instead of the import bucket. This paves the
way for progress checkpointing.

Related: https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/11568

pageserver/client/src/mgmt_api.rs

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 use std::collections::HashMap;
 use std::error::Error as _;
+use std::time::Duration;
 
 use bytes::Bytes;
 use detach_ancestor::AncestorDetached;
@@ -819,4 +820,25 @@ impl Client {
             .await
             .map(|resp| resp.status())
     }
+
+    pub async fn activate_post_import(
+        &self,
+        tenant_shard_id: TenantShardId,
+        timeline_id: TimelineId,
+        activate_timeline_timeout: Duration,
+    ) -> Result<TimelineInfo> {
+        let uri = format!(
+            "{}/v1/tenant/{}/timeline/{}/activate_post_import?timeline_activate_timeout_ms={}",
+            self.mgmt_api_endpoint,
+            tenant_shard_id,
+            timeline_id,
+            activate_timeline_timeout.as_millis()
+        );
+
+        self.request(Method::PUT, uri, ())
+            .await?
+            .json()
+            .await
+            .map_err(Error::ReceiveBody)
+    }
 }