proxy fix wake compute rate limit (#7902)

## Problem

We were rate limiting wake_compute in the wrong place

## Summary of changes

Move wake_compute rate limit to after the permit is acquired. Also makes
a slight refactor on normalize, as it caught my eye

proxy/src/console/provider/neon.rs

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@ use crate::{
     http,
     metrics::{CacheOutcome, Metrics},
     rate_limiter::EndpointRateLimiter,
-    scram, EndpointCacheKey, Normalize,
+    scram, EndpointCacheKey,
 };
 use crate::{cache::Cached, context::RequestMonitoring};
 use futures::TryFutureExt;
@@ -281,14 +281,6 @@ impl super::Api for Api {
             return Ok(cached);
         }
 
-        // check rate limit
-        if !self
-            .wake_compute_endpoint_rate_limiter
-            .check(user_info.endpoint.normalize().into(), 1)
-        {
-            return Err(WakeComputeError::TooManyConnections);
-        }
-
         let permit = self.locks.get_permit(&key).await?;
 
         // after getting back a permit - it's possible the cache was filled
@@ -301,6 +293,15 @@ impl super::Api for Api {
             }
         }
 
+        // check rate limit
+        if !self
+            .wake_compute_endpoint_rate_limiter
+            .check(user_info.endpoint.normalize_intern(), 1)
+        {
+            info!(key = &*key, "found cached compute node info");
+            return Err(WakeComputeError::TooManyConnections);
+        }
+
         let mut node = permit.release_result(self.do_wake_compute(ctx, user_info).await)?;
         ctx.set_project(node.aux.clone());
         let cold_start_info = node.aux.cold_start_info;