feat: Add configurable Direct IO alignment support (#12821)

## Problem

Neon's storage system currently has hard-coded 512-byte block size for
Direct IO operations, which causes I/O errors on systems with disks that
have 4096-byte block sizes.

This results in errors like "vec read failed" and "Invalid argument (os
error 22)" on certain hardware configurations.

See issue #12623 for details.

## Summary of changes

Make Direct IO alignment configurable at build time to support both
512-byte and 4096-byte block sizes:

- Add `io-align-512` and `io-align-4k` cargo features (default: 512-byte
for backward compatibility)
- Make `DEFAULT_IO_BUFFER_ALIGNMENT` configurable via cargo features in
`pageserver_api`
- Update `DIO_CHUNK_SIZE` in vectored_dio_read to use the configured
alignment value dynamically
- Add `IO_ALIGNMENT` build argument to Dockerfile to allow building
images with different alignment settings
- Add startup logging to display the configured IO buffer alignment for
operational visibility
- Fix validation logic in `virtual_file.rs` to use the configured
alignment instead of hard-coded 512

This change allows Neon to run on systems with different disk block
sizes by building with the appropriate feature flag, addressing the
compatibility issues described in the RFC on Direct IO implementation

## Performance Note

Benchmarks show 512-byte alignment performs significantly better than
4k:
- Write: 512-byte is 21-71% faster across percentiles (p99: 71% faster)
  - Read: 512-byte is slightly faster (5-21% improvement)

This is why 512-byte remains the default.
However, some storage systems require 4k alignment and will fail with
EINVAL otherwise. This change adds build-time configuration to support
both environments.

Dockerfile

@@ -78,6 +78,7 @@ WORKDIR /home/nonroot
 ARG GIT_VERSION=local
 ARG BUILD_TAG
 ARG ADDITIONAL_RUSTFLAGS=""
+ARG IO_ALIGNMENT=512
 ENV CARGO_FEATURES="default"
 
 # 3. Build cargo dependencies. Note that this step doesn't depend on anything else than
@@ -101,7 +102,12 @@ COPY --chown=nonroot --from=plan     /home/nonroot/Cargo.lock               Carg
 RUN  --mount=type=secret,uid=1000,id=SUBZERO_ACCESS_TOKEN \
     set -e \
     && if [ -s /run/secrets/SUBZERO_ACCESS_TOKEN ]; then \
-        export CARGO_FEATURES="rest_broker"; \
+        export CARGO_FEATURES="${CARGO_FEATURES},rest_broker"; \
+    fi \
+    && if [ "$IO_ALIGNMENT" = "4k" ]; then \
+        export CARGO_FEATURES="${CARGO_FEATURES},io-align-4k"; \
+    elif [ "$IO_ALIGNMENT" = "512" ]; then \
+        export CARGO_FEATURES="${CARGO_FEATURES},io-align-512"; \
     fi \
     && RUSTFLAGS="-Clinker=clang -Clink-arg=-fuse-ld=mold -Clink-arg=-Wl,--no-rosegment -Cforce-frame-pointers=yes ${ADDITIONAL_RUSTFLAGS}" cargo auditable build \
       --features $CARGO_FEATURES \