Proxy: send cancel notifications to all instances (#6719)

## Problem

If cancel request ends up on the wrong proxy instance, it doesn't take
an effect.

## Summary of changes

Send redis notifications to all proxy pods about the cancel request.

Related issue: https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/5839,
https://github.com/neondatabase/cloud/issues/10262

libs/pq_proto/Cargo.toml

@@ -13,5 +13,6 @@ rand.workspace = true
 tokio.workspace = true
 tracing.workspace = true
 thiserror.workspace = true
+serde.workspace = true
 
 workspace_hack.workspace = true

libs/pq_proto/src/lib.rs

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ pub mod framed;
 
 use byteorder::{BigEndian, ReadBytesExt};
 use bytes::{Buf, BufMut, Bytes, BytesMut};
+use serde::{Deserialize, Serialize};
 use std::{borrow::Cow, collections::HashMap, fmt, io, str};
 
 // re-export for use in utils pageserver_feedback.rs
@@ -123,7 +124,7 @@ impl StartupMessageParams {
     }
 }
 
-#[derive(Debug, Hash, PartialEq, Eq, Clone, Copy)]
+#[derive(Debug, Hash, PartialEq, Eq, Clone, Copy, Serialize, Deserialize)]
 pub struct CancelKeyData {
     pub backend_pid: i32,
     pub cancel_key: i32,