storcon: register Pageserver gRPC address (#12268)

## Problem

Pageservers now expose a gRPC API on a separate address and port. This
must be registered with the storage controller such that it can be
plumbed through to the compute via cplane.

Touches #11926.

## Summary of changes

This patch registers the gRPC address and port with the storage
controller:

* Add gRPC address to `nodes` database table and `NodePersistence`, with
a Diesel migration.
* Add gRPC address in `NodeMetadata`, `NodeRegisterRequest`,
`NodeDescribeResponse`, and `TenantLocateResponseShard`.
* Add gRPC address flags to `storcon_cli node-register`.

These changes are backwards-compatible, since all structs will ignore
unknown fields during deserialization.

pageserver/src/controller_upcall_client.rs

@@ -159,14 +159,7 @@ impl StorageControllerUpcallApi for StorageControllerUpcallClient {
                 Ok(m) => {
                     // Since we run one time at startup, be generous in our logging and
                     // dump all metadata.
-                    tracing::info!(
-                        "Loaded node metadata: postgres {}:{}, http {}:{}, other fields: {:?}",
-                        m.postgres_host,
-                        m.postgres_port,
-                        m.http_host,
-                        m.http_port,
-                        m.other
-                    );
+                    tracing::info!("Loaded node metadata: {m}");
 
                     let az_id = {
                         let az_id_from_metadata = m
@@ -195,6 +188,8 @@ impl StorageControllerUpcallApi for StorageControllerUpcallClient {
                         node_id: conf.id,
                         listen_pg_addr: m.postgres_host,
                         listen_pg_port: m.postgres_port,
+                        listen_grpc_addr: m.grpc_host,
+                        listen_grpc_port: m.grpc_port,
                         listen_http_addr: m.http_host,
                         listen_http_port: m.http_port,
                         listen_https_port: m.https_port,