Fix the pg_hintplan flakyness (#8834)

## Problem
pg_hintplan test seems to be flaky, sometimes it fails, while usually it
passes

## Summary of changes

The regression test is changed to filter out the Neon service queries. The
expected file is changed as well.

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Dockerfile.compute-node

@@ -942,7 +942,7 @@ COPY --from=hll-pg-build /hll.tar.gz /ext-src
 COPY --from=plpgsql-check-pg-build /plpgsql_check.tar.gz /ext-src
 #COPY --from=timescaledb-pg-build /timescaledb.tar.gz /ext-src
 COPY --from=pg-hint-plan-pg-build /pg_hint_plan.tar.gz /ext-src
-COPY patches/pg_hintplan.patch /ext-src
+COPY patches/pg_hint_plan.patch /ext-src
 COPY --from=pg-cron-pg-build /pg_cron.tar.gz /ext-src
 COPY patches/pg_cron.patch /ext-src
 #COPY --from=pg-pgx-ulid-build /home/nonroot/pgx_ulid.tar.gz /ext-src
@@ -964,7 +964,7 @@ RUN cd /ext-src/pgvector-src && patch -p1 <../pgvector.patch
 RUN cd /ext-src/rum-src && patch -p1 <../rum.patch
 # cmake is required for the h3 test
 RUN apt-get update && apt-get install -y cmake
-RUN patch -p1 < /ext-src/pg_hintplan.patch
+RUN cd /ext-src/pg_hint_plan-src && patch -p1 < /ext-src/pg_hint_plan.patch
 COPY --chmod=755 docker-compose/run-tests.sh /run-tests.sh
 RUN patch -p1 </ext-src/pg_anon.patch
 RUN patch -p1 </ext-src/pg_cron.patch