Add GUC controlling whether to pause recovery if some critical GUCs at replica have smaller value than on primary (#9057)

## Problem

See https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/9023

## Summary of changes

Ass GUC `recovery_pause_on_misconfig` allowing not to pause in case of
replica and primary configuration mismatch

See https://github.com/neondatabase/postgres/pull/501
See https://github.com/neondatabase/postgres/pull/502
See https://github.com/neondatabase/postgres/pull/503
See https://github.com/neondatabase/postgres/pull/504


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Co-authored-by: Konstantin Knizhnik <knizhnik@neon.tech>
Co-authored-by: Heikki Linnakangas <heikki@neon.tech>

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