Update most of the dependencies to their latest versions (#3991)

All non-trivial updates extracted into separate commits, also `carho
hakari` data and its manifest format were updated.

3 sets of crates remain unupdated:

* `base64` — touches proxy in a lot of places and changed its api (by
0.21 version) quite strongly since our version (0.13).
* `opentelemetry` and `opentelemetry-*` crates

```
error[E0308]: mismatched types
  --> libs/tracing-utils/src/http.rs:65:21
   |
65 |     span.set_parent(parent_ctx);
   |          ---------- ^^^^^^^^^^ expected struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context`, found struct `opentelemetry::Context`
   |          |
   |          arguments to this method are incorrect
   |
   = note: struct `opentelemetry::Context` and struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context` have similar names, but are actually distinct types
note: struct `opentelemetry::Context` is defined in crate `opentelemetry_api`
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/opentelemetry_api-0.19.0/src/context.rs:77:1
   |
77 | pub struct Context {
   | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
note: struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context` is defined in crate `opentelemetry_api`
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/opentelemetry_api-0.18.0/src/context.rs:77:1
   |
77 | pub struct Context {
   | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
   = note: perhaps two different versions of crate `opentelemetry_api` are being used?
note: associated function defined here
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/tracing-opentelemetry-0.18.0/src/span_ext.rs:43:8
   |
43 |     fn set_parent(&self, cx: Context);
   |        ^^^^^^^^^^

For more information about this error, try `rustc --explain E0308`.
error: could not compile `tracing-utils` due to previous error
warning: build failed, waiting for other jobs to finish...
error: could not compile `tracing-utils` due to previous error
```

`tracing-opentelemetry` of version `0.19` is not yet released, that is
supposed to have the update we need.

* similarly, `rustls`, `tokio-rustls`, `rustls-*` and `tls-listener`
crates have similar issue:

```
error[E0308]: mismatched types
   --> libs/postgres_backend/tests/simple_select.rs:112:78
    |
112 |     let mut make_tls_connect = tokio_postgres_rustls::MakeRustlsConnect::new(client_cfg);
    |                                --------------------------------------------- ^^^^^^^^^^ expected struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig`, found struct `ClientConfig`
    |                                |
    |                                arguments to this function are incorrect
    |
    = note: struct `ClientConfig` and struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig` have similar names, but are actually distinct types
note: struct `ClientConfig` is defined in crate `rustls`
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/rustls-0.21.0/src/client/client_conn.rs:125:1
    |
125 | pub struct ClientConfig {
    | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
note: struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig` is defined in crate `rustls`
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/rustls-0.20.8/src/client/client_conn.rs:91:1
    |
91  | pub struct ClientConfig {
    | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    = note: perhaps two different versions of crate `rustls` are being used?
note: associated function defined here
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/tokio-postgres-rustls-0.9.0/src/lib.rs:23:12
    |
23  |     pub fn new(config: ClientConfig) -> Self {
    |            ^^^

For more information about this error, try `rustc --explain E0308`.
error: could not compile `postgres_backend` due to previous error
warning: build failed, waiting for other jobs to finish...
```

* aws crates: I could not make new API to work with bucket endpoint
overload, and console e2e tests failed.
Other our tests passed, further investigation is worth to be done in
https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/4008

libs/consumption_metrics/Cargo.toml

@@ -4,13 +4,12 @@ version = "0.1.0"
 edition = "2021"
 license = "Apache-2.0"
 
-# See more keys and their definitions at https://doc.rust-lang.org/cargo/reference/manifest.html
-
 [dependencies]
-anyhow = "1.0.68"
-chrono = { version = "0.4", default-features = false, features = ["clock", "serde"] }
-rand = "0.8.3"
-serde = "1.0.152"
-serde_with = "2.1.0"
-utils = { version = "0.1.0", path = "../utils" }
-workspace_hack = { version = "0.1.0", path = "../../workspace_hack" }
+anyhow.workspace = true
+chrono.workspace = true
+rand.workspace = true
+serde.workspace = true
+serde_with.workspace = true
+utils.workspace = true
+
+workspace_hack.workspace = true