Add /terminate API (#6745)

this is to speed up suspends, see
https://github.com/neondatabase/cloud/issues/10284

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compute_tools/src/compute.rs

@@ -28,6 +28,8 @@ use compute_api::responses::{ComputeMetrics, ComputeStatus};
 use compute_api::spec::{ComputeFeature, ComputeMode, ComputeSpec};
 use utils::measured_stream::MeasuredReader;
 
+use nix::sys::signal::{kill, Signal};
+
 use remote_storage::{DownloadError, RemotePath};
 
 use crate::checker::create_availability_check_data;
@@ -1322,3 +1324,17 @@ LIMIT 100",
         Ok(remote_ext_metrics)
     }
 }
+
+pub fn forward_termination_signal() {
+    let ss_pid = SYNC_SAFEKEEPERS_PID.load(Ordering::SeqCst);
+    if ss_pid != 0 {
+        let ss_pid = nix::unistd::Pid::from_raw(ss_pid as i32);
+        kill(ss_pid, Signal::SIGTERM).ok();
+    }
+    let pg_pid = PG_PID.load(Ordering::SeqCst);
+    if pg_pid != 0 {
+        let pg_pid = nix::unistd::Pid::from_raw(pg_pid as i32);
+        // use 'immediate' shutdown (SIGQUIT): https://www.postgresql.org/docs/current/server-shutdown.html
+        kill(pg_pid, Signal::SIGQUIT).ok();
+    }
+}