Rename "disabled" safekeeper scheduling policy to "pause" (#10410)

Rename the safekeeper scheduling policy "disabled" to "pause".

A rename was requested in
https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/pull/10400#discussion_r1916259124,
as the "disabled" policy is meant to be analogous to the "pause" policy
for pageservers.

Also simplify the `SkSchedulingPolicyArg::from_str` function, relying on
the `from_str` implementation of `SkSchedulingPolicy`. Latter is used
for the database format as well, so it is quite stable. If we ever want
to change the UI, we'll need to duplicate the function again but this is
cheap.

libs/pageserver_api/src/controller_api.rs

@@ -324,7 +324,7 @@ impl From<NodeSchedulingPolicy> for String {
 #[derive(Serialize, Deserialize, Clone, Copy, Eq, PartialEq, Debug)]
 pub enum SkSchedulingPolicy {
     Active,
-    Disabled,
+    Pause,
     Decomissioned,
 }
 
@@ -334,9 +334,13 @@ impl FromStr for SkSchedulingPolicy {
     fn from_str(s: &str) -> Result<Self, Self::Err> {
         Ok(match s {
             "active" => Self::Active,
-            "disabled" => Self::Disabled,
+            "pause" => Self::Pause,
             "decomissioned" => Self::Decomissioned,
-            _ => return Err(anyhow::anyhow!("Unknown scheduling state '{s}'")),
+            _ => {
+                return Err(anyhow::anyhow!(
+                    "Unknown scheduling policy '{s}', try active,pause,decomissioned"
+                ))
+            }
         })
     }
 }
@@ -346,7 +350,7 @@ impl From<SkSchedulingPolicy> for String {
         use SkSchedulingPolicy::*;
         match value {
             Active => "active",
-            Disabled => "disabled",
+            Pause => "pause",
             Decomissioned => "decomissioned",
         }
         .to_string()