chore(proxy): vendor a subset of rust-postgres (#9930)

Our rust-postgres fork is getting messy. Mostly because proxy wants more
control over the raw protocol than tokio-postgres provides. As such,
it's diverging more and more. Storage and compute also make use of
rust-postgres, but in more normal usage, thus they don't need our crazy
changes.

Idea: 
* proxy maintains their subset
* other teams use a minimal patch set against upstream rust-postgres

Reviewing this code will be difficult. To implement it, I
1. Copied tokio-postgres, postgres-protocol and postgres-types from
00940fcdb5
2. Updated their package names with the `2` suffix to make them compile
in the workspace.
3. Updated proxy to use those packages
4. Copied in the code from tokio-postgres-rustls 0.13 (with some patches
applied https://github.com/jbg/tokio-postgres-rustls/pull/32
https://github.com/jbg/tokio-postgres-rustls/pull/33)
5. Removed as much dead code as I could find in the vendored libraries
6. Updated the tokio-postgres-rustls code to use our existing channel
binding implementation

libs/proxy/postgres-protocol2/src/authentication/mod.rs

@@ -0,0 +1,37 @@
+//! Authentication protocol support.
+use md5::{Digest, Md5};
+
+pub mod sasl;
+
+/// Hashes authentication information in a way suitable for use in response
+/// to an `AuthenticationMd5Password` message.
+///
+/// The resulting string should be sent back to the database in a
+/// `PasswordMessage` message.
+#[inline]
+pub fn md5_hash(username: &[u8], password: &[u8], salt: [u8; 4]) -> String {
+    let mut md5 = Md5::new();
+    md5.update(password);
+    md5.update(username);
+    let output = md5.finalize_reset();
+    md5.update(format!("{:x}", output));
+    md5.update(salt);
+    format!("md5{:x}", md5.finalize())
+}
+
+#[cfg(test)]
+mod test {
+    use super::*;
+
+    #[test]
+    fn md5() {
+        let username = b"md5_user";
+        let password = b"password";
+        let salt = [0x2a, 0x3d, 0x8f, 0xe0];
+
+        assert_eq!(
+            md5_hash(username, password, salt),
+            "md562af4dd09bbb41884907a838a3233294"
+        );
+    }
+}