Passing neon options to the console (#5781)

The idea is to pass neon_* prefixed options to control plane. It can be
used by cplane to dynamically create timelines and computes. Such
options also should be excluded from passing to compute. Another issue
is how connection caching is working now, because compute's instance now
depends not only on hostname but probably on such options too I included
them to cache key.

proxy/src/serverless/sql_over_http.rs

@@ -174,11 +174,23 @@ fn get_conn_info(
         }
     }
 
+    let pairs = connection_url.query_pairs();
+
+    let mut options = Option::None;
+
+    for (key, value) in pairs {
+        if key == "options" {
+            options = Some(value.to_string());
+            break;
+        }
+    }
+
     Ok(ConnInfo {
         username: username.to_owned(),
         dbname: dbname.to_owned(),
         hostname: hostname.to_owned(),
         password: password.to_owned(),
+        options,
     })
 }