## Problem
It is called context/ctx everywhere and the Monitoring suffix needlessly
confuses with proper monitoring code.
## Summary of changes
* Rename RequestMonitoring to RequestContext
* Rename RequestMonitoringInner to RequestContextInner
Follow up on #9344. We want to install the extension automatically. We
didn't want to couple the extension into compute_ctl so instead
local_proxy is the one to issue requests specific to the extension.
depends on #9344 and #9395
misc changes split out from #8855
- **allow cloning the request context in a read-only fashion for
background tasks**
- **propagate endpoint and request context through the jwk cache**
- **only allow password based auth for md5 during testing**
- **remove auth info from conn info**
