This introduces a new module to handle thread creation and shutdown.
All page server threads are now registered in a global hash map, and
there's a function to request individual threads to shut down gracefully.
Thread shutdown request is signalled to the thread with a flag, as well
as a Future that can be used to wake up async operations if shutdown is
requested. Use that facility to have the libpq listener thread respond
to pageserver shutdown, based on Kirill's earlier prototype
(https://github.com/zenithdb/zenith/pull/1088). That addresses
https://github.com/zenithdb/zenith/issues/1036, previously the libpq
listener thread would not exit until one more connection arrives.
This also eliminates a resource leak in the accept() loop. Previously,
we added the JoinHanlde of each new thread to a vector but old handles
for threads that had already exited were never removed.
'anyhow' crate can include a backtrace in all errors, when the
'backtrace' feature is enabled. Enable it, and change the places that used
'{:#}' or '{}' to '{:?}', so that the backtrace is printed.
